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Etiquette

At TMP, we emphasize a NO PRESSURE environment. Guests have the freedom to engage as they please, with mutual consent being paramount. Always remember to ask before you touch or watch. If you prefer to spend time in the meeting area without participating in other activities, that's perfectly acceptable. The meeting area is akin to a sultry bar where you can socialize and make friends. Everyone understands the apprehensions of first-timers, and you'll find most members to be friendly and patient. Clubs like TMP offer a safe space for initial meet-ups, ensuring you find the right vibes.

Basic Information

Nestled in the near Kalamazoo, Michigan, TMP is just a short 90-minute drive from Grand Rapids or Chicago. With over 37 years in the business, we've been the go-to spot for singles and couples looking to spice up their evenings.

🎈 First time at TMP? Here's what you can expect:

  • Vibrant Parties: We light up the night every Saturday and on every 3rd Friday of the month.

  • Expansive Space: Our club stretches over 6,000 sq ft, ensuring there's something for everyone.

  • Dance the Night Away: Groove to the beats of our DJ on our dance floor, complete with a sizzling stripper pole.

  • Relax and Unwind: Step into our large hot tub or cozy up by our outdoor firepit, surrounded by a 12-foot privacy fence.

  • Play or Stay: With 12 play rooms and over 35 beds, the choice is yours. And guess what? You can even stay until noon the next day! During our BASH weekends, feel free to stay day and night.

  • Delicious Treats: Enjoy our complimentary buffet to keep your energy up. We supply Coke products, ice (not for cooler) and bottle water.

  • 420 Friendly & BYOB: Bring your own drinks and relax in our 420-friendly environment.

At TMP, the vibe is always relaxed and welcoming. Whether you're here to play, watch, or just chill, we've got a spot for you. Come join the fun!

The TMP Guide: Tips for an Enjoyable Experience

TMP is a fantastic venue to relax and enjoy the night. It can be a bit overwhelming during your initial visits. Here are some guidelines to help you make the most of your time.

  • Maintain the Atmosphere

    • Understand the vibe and respect it. Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, this can be forgotten.

    • For couples: Discuss your boundaries and desires. Be transparent with each other and with those you engage with. No one wants to witness a couple's dispute when it's time to connect.

    • For single males: Communication is key. Always ask for consent. A closed mouth doesn't get fed, so speak up, inquire, and enjoy. If something is happening in a group, always ask before joining, watching, or touching.

    • For single females: Embrace your power. Express your desires, choose your partners, and relish the attention from eager participants.

  • Women Lead at TMP

    • Women, remember you're in control here. Whether you're part of a couple or flying solo, make your desires known. You set the pace.

  • TMP is About Pleasure

    • NO BDSM!! TMP is all about mutual enjoyment. So, while it's a place of passion, leave the whips and leashes at home. Focus on pleasure, not pain. Feel free to bring your vibrator and dildos, but keep it enjoyable for everyone.

  • Communication is Crucial

    • Speak up about your fantasies. Whether it's group fun, a specific scenario, or a one-on-one connection, make it known. You're in charge of your pleasure, so lead the way or let your partner guide you.

  • Start Simple

    • Especially for single males: If someone is openly displaying affection, politely ask to join. Focus on enhancing the experience for all. Remember, mutual pleasure is the goal.

  • Be Respectful and Read the Room

    • Observing is fine, but don't make it uncomfortable. Avoid staring intensely or approaching at inopportune moments. Wait for a sign or make eye contact before making a move. Always prioritize the mood.

  • Stay Sober and Present

    • If you need to be drunk to engage, this might not be the right setting for you. No one wants to clean up after or console an intoxicated individual. Be present, enjoy responsibly, and always prioritize safety. If you've had too much to drink, take advantage of the available sleeping arrangements.

 

We'll continue to update this guide as needed to ensure everyone has a memorable experience at TMP.

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