• Yes, You Are Welcome To Come To A Party

  • Yes! You are welcome to come to a party as long as you come with respect, good manners, and an open mind. Whether you are bi, gay, straight, curious, or still figuring things out, what matters most is how you treat people.

• Respect Is What People Care About Most

  • Nobody is going to judge you just because you are bi or gay. What people care about is whether you are respectful, friendly, honest, and able to understand boundaries. A good attitude will take you much further than trying too hard.

• You Will Need To Talk To People

  • Every person and couple is different, so you will need to have real conversations to find out who may be a good fit for you. Do not assume someone is interested just because they are at the party. Some bi guys are open about…

Use these questions as a self-check before your first step into the lifestyle. The goal is clarity, consent, and emotional safety - not pressure.

Why do I want to explore this lifestyle?

Be honest with yourself. Is it curiosity, sexual freedom, connection, adventure, community, or pressure from a partner? Your reason will shape your experience

Am I doing this for me, or to keep someone else?

If you feel like you have to do it so a partner will not leave, cheat, or lose interest, that is a red flag. Consent should be enthusiastic, not fear-based.

What are my actual boundaries right now?

Be clear on your why

Know why you are going: curiosity, fun, connection, exploration, or community.

Make sure it is your choice, not pressure from a partner or group.

Remind yourself: showing up does not obligate you to do anything.

Set your boundaries before you go

Make a simple Yes / Maybe (ask first) / No list.

This year, celebrating 40 years of bringing sex people together, we are going where FUCKING and HOT is the norm. Who wants to come with us?!?! Hopefully, some of our Chicago members will show us some love, too. Come stop by the booth and rep the club!!

https://www.exxxoticaexpo.com/

Come join us this weekend for a night full of fun and sexy people. We are bring a stripper from Handsome Heroes. Bring your ones and lets have some fun. Its going to get nasty...

Hi. I'm new here as well and looking to check this place out in the next fews weeks. Its a bit of a drive. Many people here at the weekend parties?

I'm finally diving into the scene here in West Michigan and looking forward to connecting with some fun new people. I’m a 26 yr old single guy with swinging experience, so I know the etiquette. I'm just here to meet cool people and find a great vibe.

Is the glory hole used very much at club?

New here, just thought I’d say what’s up! Feel free to add me 😎